Tuesday, June 09, 2009

a man like...
i spent the time after exams pondering over some issues. with some help from a show. i think i've finally gotten it. i know what i want.

these impt qualities.

respecting him
- When a guy loves you, he would only want the best for you. Even if it means leaving you. That would be an unselfish act from him and this man is then worth respecting.

a caring him
- Even if it is not within the (financial) means of the man, he would still want to and try to make you happy, because he loves you. He takes notice of you, pays attention to you, be interested in your life (even those before he met you), simply because he cares for you. If he doesn't, it could mean he loves himself more than he loves you.

a giving him
- Love is not calculative. Therefore if ever any party feels obliged to satisfy the other because then it would be 'fair', then the relationship is built upon 'repayment', 'compensation', and 'sympathy'.

an accepting him
- Only with understanding and acceptance of your other half can you truly trust and love him/her. Understanding comes in during the dating process. When couples cannot accept each other, they will find themselves fighting over the same issues over and over again. Eventually, he/she will not be 'good enough'. and one will leave for a 'better future or partner'.

a reasonable and empathising him
- Instead of questioning why are you behaving this way, he would put himself in your shoes and empathize you. Only then can there be compromising and accommodating. Only when both parties are giving will this situation happen. If any one is not, it will result in another to not find any point in doing so. Even if it takes a few days to realise it, he would spent the time to think through it or talk to somebody. If he doesn't, he will put the blame on you and start criticising you. he would want you to reflect on yourself and ask for you to change instead. she will start to lose confidence in herself. he's too self-centered or unreasonable as a person. He would be hard to get along with.

a wise him
- part of being able to respect him, a man that broadens your horizon and understanding of yourself shows maturity and is the one to accompany you for the rest of your life on your path to self-discovery. he will guide and help you along the way, instead of bringing out the worst in you.

updated at 12:06 AM.

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