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Wednesday, March 19, 2008

it's the sisters affair.

my sister drives me up the wall, periodically. meaning, it's a cycle that nv stops. unless she moves OUT of the house. then we will all have peace. i will be the first to jump for joy, followed by my mum. but even though my mum talks bad abt her all the time (again, periodically.), i can truly ustand the meaning of 'all mothers love their child' from her. no matter how bad my sis treats her, by bad it's not like the abusive kinda bad or hate her kinda bad, but the rude, treat-her-for granted, self-centred and scold her kinda bad. my mum will still always make sure my sis gets what she wants, prepare what she needs, take in her small scoldings. but as a sibling, i do not have the same love for her as compared to what my parents will have since the moment she's born. and thus, i feel the need to rant a lil. pardon me.

SHE, walks into MY room as if it's her second wardrobe, except that she does them either when im sleeping, or when im not ard.
SHE, doesn't even take care of MY things when she borrows them, and when mishaps happen, she claims ALL the time that 'when things get old, it's like that!'
List of damaged items:
1)she goes to the gym wearing my shoe WITHOUT socks. and i think it has been years alr only tt i caught her red handed only recently. GRR.
2)earrings changed colour only after she wore it and she claims that 'silver earrings are like that'. prob is ive had it for 2-3 years and it was nv 'like that'. and i highly suspect she sprayed perfume with the earrings on. but will she admit? of course not.

as im typing, she came into my room rummaging my clothes again, attempting to take my 2 tank tops away, wearing them alr countless times. more than i have. one of them,

3) tank top with many disgusting threads running out of the delicate netting. and as usual, she said 'old clothes when worn many times are like that'. worn many times by WHO. if you try to sell me sth that looks old, and say, "clothes when worn and washed many times will always look LIKE THAT(old), doesnt matter right?" WILL YOU BUY?!?! -agitated-
4) worn-once shirt and she took it away, and returned with a button missing. fabulous. the button cannot be bought anywhere else, thus i have to remove another side and sew both on to keep the sleeve up. it's new ok. it's N-E-W!!! GRRRRRR.
5) FCUK handbag with skins peeling out only after she has been using it (note: has been.). and what she said? "old things are like that! the quality is not very good...." *&^%$@!

it's nv so easy with sisters. u'll think i can just bar her from taking any of my stuff? i can live without using her stuff (which is only on rare occasions cause i hate using pp's stuff. and they'll be one-time only.). but it's hard to say this sentence,"hey! stop using my things!" because
1) she's the oldest, and the most domineering one in the family. pp listens to her! yeah right, in her own world.
2) noone can ever talk nicely to her. her defense is so strong it triggers the moment she sense sth coming her way. when she starts an argument with somebody, that person always ends up having high blood pressure. let her have the last word. she wins all the time, only because she listens to nothing you say, and shout at you for everything u've done since you were born. uh huh. so, wld i want to risk this situation?

and of course, other old items that i didnt keep in mind. and if you think they're little, it's BECAUSE SHE CAN'T WEAR MY BOTTOMS AND MOST SHOES!

not to mention she has the habit of keeping the things she borrow and nv returning them until one day i realise i need it. if i nv need it or realise it, means it'll permenently be hers. and the most irking part is when im rushing for time and she keeps my mascara deep within her trash in a box that i have to dig everything out WHEN im rushing for time. and no matter how pressed for time, i'll always put things back for her cause i wld hate the idea of coming home and finding my stuffs being thrown out of place, so i wldnt do it to others.

and you think it's so fun having a sister to share your clothes?

get out of the house will ya. u've no contribution to the house at all. except for well, troubling us all the time with the things u need to do but cant do well. like, printing a map from online?? moments ago she just needed me to tell her how to print in bnw scale, and then ended up printing FIVE pages of the whole page from online, thinking that the printer will print the page that her scroll stopped at. omg.

am i being an evil sister?

no.

p.s: my shopoholic series 1st book has been taken away for her KL trip tmr. i treat my books with TLC. she better not.....

updated at 11:57 PM.